breakup astrology

Every page in this cluster has used the fifth and the seventh as if the difference between them were obvious, and this page makes it exact. The fifth is romance, the feeling, the pleasure and the choice; the seventh is the bond, the partnership as a commitment; and the two are separate houses two signs apart, with a geometry between them that decides most of what the earlier pages read. The seventh is the third from the fifth, so the bond is the romance’s effort and courage; the fifth is the eleventh from the seventh, so the romance is the bond’s gain and wish. No ascendant has one planet ruling both. Only Saturn’s third aspect from the fifth reaches the seventh, and nothing in the seventh reaches the fifth by aspect at all. The eleventh is the romance’s own partner and the bond’s own romance at once; the ninth is the romance of the romance and the bond’s courage; the twelfth is the romance’s death and the bond’s quarrel; and the first, the native, is the romance’s fortune and the partner’s partner. A ten-house table counted from each, the exchange as the strongest join, the Navamsa’s version of both, the four charts the geometry makes, and a worked chart of a Taurus lagna whose Saturn in the fifth reached the seventh by the one aspect that can.

A love marriage can be promised and still not be this one, and the reader asking about a particular person deserves the particular answer. It comes from three tests: whether the sub-period that carries the relationship reaches the sub-period that marries, or ends first; whether the person matches the spouse the seventh house, the Navamsa and the Darakaraka describe, in background, direction and nature; and, with both charts, whether the two marriage windows overlap, since two people marry only when both charts say so in the same season. The three tests as a seven-check table, the number of significant relationships before marriage that the fifth house counts, what “they say they will marry me” is worth from your chart and what it is worth from theirs, the horary form when you have no details, the obstacles that delay without denying, the reading that says not this one and how it says it, and a worked pair of charts whose windows met in the same eighteen months.

Kundali matching counts thirty-six points from two Moons and answers one question, whether the two are compatible by the tradition’s measure; synastry lays one chart over the other and answers a different one, what happens between these two people when they meet. The partner’s planets fall into the native’s houses and on the native’s planets, and each overlay brings something out: their Saturn on your Moon is the weight you feel with them, their Jupiter on your seventh is the sanction, their Rahu on your fifth the obsession, their Venus on your seventh the ease, their seventh lord in your seventh the recognition that the bond is mutual. The overlays in their order of weight, the two seventh lords first, then the two Moons, the two lagna lords, Venus and Mars, the malefic overlays and the Navamsa, a ten-overlay table with what each brings out and whether it is a bond or an attraction, the difference between synastry and matching and why a couple needs both, what synastry cannot do, and a worked pair whose thirty-six points were poor and whose overlays were the best the method sees.

The question is the oldest one in the subject and the one most often answered dishonestly, from the wrong chart. Your chart does not contain another person’s feelings, and a reading that tells you from your Venus what he feels has read your hope. His chart, with his consent or at least his date, reads his capacity for a bond, the period he is in, and whether this relationship lives in his fifth house or his seventh, which is the difference between the romance and the intention. Two charts together read what each brings out in the other. And a horary, cast for the moment you ask, reads the question as asked, through the seventh house and the reception between its lord and yours. Nine questions in a table with the chart that answers each, the signs of the serious partner, the relationship that is a fifth-house thing for him and a seventh-house thing for you, what the Moon’s reception says in a horary, the reading you should not want, and a worked horary chart.

The question is asked as if there were an answer that fits every chart, which Venus period gives love, which Rahu period breaks it, and the honest reply is the rule this cluster’s planet pages have used throughout: a period gives by what its planet rules first, where it sits second, and what it is third. Jupiter’s dasha marries a Gemini, whose seventh it rules, and sends a Sagittarius abroad, whose twelfth it rules; Saturn’s dasha is the bond’s own period for Cancer and the quarrel’s for Leo; and Venus’s twenty years are romance for Gemini and the sixth house for Taurus. All nine periods read for relationships, with a nine-row table of which ascendants each carries the bond for and which the romance for, the periods that break relationships, the twelfth, eighth and sixth lords’ and Ketu’s, the junctions between major periods where relationships end for good, the sub-period pairs that make and unmake bonds, the Moon-chart check and the transit filter, how to find your own relationship periods in ten minutes, and a worked chart of a Gemini lagna whose Jupiter period married her in Jupiter-Venus and tested the marriage in Jupiter-Saturn.

The family’s opposition to a love marriage is read from two houses, the fourth, the mother and the home, and the ninth, the father and the tradition, set against the fifth and seventh where the relationship lives, and the reading answers the questions the couple actually ask: which parent, and why; whether the no is the kind that delays or the kind that denies; when consent comes, in the fourth and ninth lords’ sub-periods and under Jupiter’s transit; what the partner’s family will do, read from the partner’s chart or from the third and tenth houses of your own; what a marriage made without consent costs, in the second house, and when the family returns; and where caste, community and religion enter the chart, which is only as the ninth house’s reaction. Ten signatures of opposition and consent in a table, the Saturn no that is a wait, the Rahu no that is a tradition broken, and a worked chart of a Sagittarius lagna whose father said no in one sub-period and came to the wedding two years later.

Transits do not make relationships; the period does, and the transit gives the season inside it, which is the rule every timing page in this cluster has kept and this page makes exact. Jupiter’s twelve-year cycle read house by house for relationships, with the six years in which it stands on or aspects the fifth or seventh from the lagna, the same six from the Moon, and the years in which both agree. Saturn’s two-and-a-half-year tests, over the seventh, the fifth, the first and the tenth, and Sade Sati as the review. The nodes’ eighteen months, Rahu’s appetite and Ketu’s fade, always in opposite houses at once. Venus’s month and Venus retrograde’s reconnection window, Mars’s six-week quarrel, the eclipse on the relationship axes, and Mercury retrograde as the month the message goes wrong. A twelve-row table of Jupiter’s houses, the rule that a transit without a carrier’s sub-period is a year of offers, and the four-step method for building a five-year relationship calendar from the ephemeris that names each year’s season without naming a year.

“Commitment phobia” is not a term the chart uses, but the thing it names is in every chart that has a seventh house, and the reading separates three conditions the phrase runs together: not ready, which is a period and passes; not able yet, which is a seventh house that cannot carry a bond until a planet has finished with it; and not this person, which is neither a fear nor a fault. Eleven signatures in a table with the shape of each reluctance and when it lifts, Saturn on the seventh and the long test it sets, the seventh lord retrograde and the partner who keeps revisiting, Ketu’s detachment and Rahu’s appetite for the next one, the seventh lord in the twelfth who loves at a distance, the native reading their own pattern, the partner reading the other’s chart, what waiting does and does not do, and a worked chart of an Aquarius lagna whose three relationships ended at the door and who married in the seventh lord’s sub-period at thirty-seven.

This is the one page in the cluster that begins somewhere other than the chart, because where a relationship is a danger, the chart is not the first thing. The first thing is safety: a person, a helpline, a lawyer, a door, and the sentence that no reading, no period and no remedy is a reason to stay in a place where there is fear. Then what the chart can say, which is real and limited. The difference between heat and harm in the seventh, which the Mars page drew and this page holds to, so that a hot marriage is not mistaken for a dangerous one and a dangerous one is not excused as hot. The signatures of the partner who harms, read from their own chart and never as a verdict on conduct. The signatures of the native who keeps choosing one, read as a pattern of the houses and a season, not as a fault. The exit seasons, the twelfth and sixth lords’ periods and Jupiter over the twelfth, in which leaving is possible and supported, which is the one timing this page gives. The pull back, which the nodes explain and the chart does not excuse. What a reading refuses to do here, and how the reading is done in a consultation, with the safety question first. And a worked chart, read after the native had left.

Distance is a house before it is a circumstance: the twelfth, the far and the foreign, and the ninth, the long journey, standing on the seventh where the partner lives, and a long-distance relationship is one of those houses carrying the bond. The chart answers the three questions such a couple asks in the order they ask them. Will it survive, which the seventh lord’s dignity and the third house’s communication decide. Who moves, which the fourth and twelfth lords’ periods decide, since the one whose twelfth lord’s period is running is the one who goes and the one whose fourth lord’s is running is the one who stays. And when the distance closes, which Jupiter over the fourth or seventh gives within the carrying sub-period. Nine signatures in a table with what the distance is and whether it closes, the relationship that lives on distance and dies when it ends, the third house that keeps the bond alive, the visa and the settlement as the foreign cluster reads them, and a worked chart of a Pisces lagna whose home and partner share one lord in the twelfth.