Relationships With a Married Person: The Single Partner’s Chart, Read With Dignity
This page is written for the single person in a relationship with someone who is married, and it is written without a lecture, because the reader has heard the lecture and has come for something the lecture cannot give, which is what their own chart says. It says four things. What draws them to the unavailable, the fifth lord in the twelfth or eighth, Venus with Rahu or Ketu, Rahu on the fifth, which is a pattern of the houses and a season and not a verdict on their worth. Which house the relationship lives in, the twelfth or the eighth, and what that house does to relationships that live in it. Whether their own marriage window, the seventh lord’s sub-period that would carry a bond of their own, is passing while they wait, which is the reading’s most useful and least welcome sentence. And what the other person’s chart can say, which is whether their marriage is ending on its own schedule, and cannot say, which is whether they will leave for the native, since a chart reads a marriage’s seasons and not a person’s choice. Eight signatures in a table, the third party’s houses in the native’s own chart, the horary form of the question and the thing it reveals about who the question is about, what the reading refuses to time, and a worked chart of a Virgo lagna whose relationship lived in the twelfth for two years while her own marriage window approached.